What is Child Abuse?
Child abuse is the ill-treatment of children by adults or older children.
There are several types of child
abuse. These include:
Neglect
Emotional Abuse
Physical Abuse
Sexual Abuse
Neglect:
The failure – intentional or unintentional – of parents or guardians
to provide food, shelter, clothing, health
care, education, love and/or nurturing to a child.
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Some Signs of Neglect:
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Some Behaviours of a Neglected Child:
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Unkempt appearance
Lack of medical or dental care
Poor hygiene
Abandonment
Consistent hunger
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Begs for food
Steals
Lack of interest
Tired and listless
Passive or aggressive
Poor attendance at school
Rocking
Isolation
Depression
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Emotional Abuse:
The repeated rejection and humiliation of a child, constant negative
communication, withholding of love
and affection and the ultimate destruction of the child’s self-esteem.
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Some Signs of Emotional Abuse:
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Some Behaviours of an Emotionally Abused Child: |
Physical problems resulting from stress
Poor performance at school
Low self-esteem
Low confidence
Constantly putting self down
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Depression
Excessively passive or aggressive
Sleep problems
Slow development
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Physical Abuse:
The intentional physical injury or pattern of injuries caused by a parent,
guardian or caregiver.
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Some Signs of Physical Abuse:
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Some Behaviours of a Physically Abused Child:
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Unexplained bruises
Burns
Fractures
Other injuries
Hiding or lying about injuries
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Afraid and timid
Afraid to go home
Resists physical contact
Violent to others or self
Lack of trust
Depression
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Keeping Your Child Safe:
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Never leave your child alone, even in a car
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Listen to your child when he/she says that he/she does not want to be with
someone
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Get to know your child’s friends/activities
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Be cautious if someone shows excessive interest in your child
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Be aware of changes in your child’s behaviour
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Do not dress your child in clothes that display your child’s name. Strangers
could pretend to know your child, giving the child a
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false sense of security
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Be sure that your child’s school or nursery does not allow anyone other
than yourself or someone you have identified to collect
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your child from school
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Talk to your child about who to talk to or call if lost or separated from
you when away from home
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Listen to your child
What every child should hear:
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I’m so lucky to have you
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You’re a great helper
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I like it when you try hard
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Let’s talk about it
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I’m sorry
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You’re very special to me
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Thank you for your help
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I love you
For parents, If you experience any of the following, please seek
help
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You feel lonely and isolated with no one to turn to
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You feel nervous and unable to cope
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You feel you have no control
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You feel that you are not a good parent
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You are depressed
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Your problems seem overwhelming
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You’re afraid of what you might do to your child
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You sometimes hurt your child
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You experience sexual feelings toward your child
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You suspect your child or another child may be experiencing abuse
We have a copy of the Convention of the Rights of the Children
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